chore(pkg): lintian sweep — fix obsolete polkit dep, drop dup systemd path, command -v in pam hooks; override deferred manpages and PPA-only warnings

Real fixes:
- authforge-daemon Depends: policykit-1 -> polkitd | policykit-1
  (policykit-1 was renamed; old name is obsolete on noble).
- debian/rules: drop manual install of authforge-daemon.service to
  /lib/systemd/system/ — dh_installsystemd auto-installs to
  /usr/lib/systemd/system/, the manual line caused a file-in-root-and-usr
  duplicate flagged by usrmerge.
- authforge-pam.{postinst,prerm}: replace [ -x /usr/sbin/pam-auth-update ]
  with command -v pam-auth-update — lintian flags hard-coded paths in
  test syntax; command -v is the portable idiom.

Overrides (with rationale in each file):
- no-manual-page on the three binaries — manpages deferred to Phase 18.
- desktop-command-not-in-package authforge in gnome-integration —
  command lives in authforge-gui (cross-package Depends).
- initial-upload-closes-no-bugs on every package — AuthForge ships
  via PPA, not the Debian archive, so there is no ITP to close.

After fixes, lintian on the five binary debs is silent (zero W/E).

.gitignore

@@ -8,6 +8,7 @@ debian/.debhelper/
 debian/files
 debian/*.substvars
 debian/*.debhelper.log
+debian/*.debhelper
 debian/authforge*/
 debian/debhelper-build-stamp
 pam/*.so